He’s Not Your Soulmate, Sis—He Just Has Good Skin and Says ‘Grand Rising’

Let’s talk about it.
You met him on a Tuesday. By Wednesday, your inner playlist went full Beyoncé-in-love mode.
By Friday, you’re checking birth charts, pulling cards, and asking the Universe, “Is this the one?”

Spoiler alert: No.
He just has great cologne, a soothing voice, and knows how to say “peace queen” without blinking.

Let me be real with you—chemistry will lie to you if your healing isn’t louder.

When your nervous system is used to chaos, butterflies feel like truth. But sometimes? That ain’t divine love. That’s your trauma saying “Hey girl, let’s go another round!”

So, how do you know it’s real?

✨ He respects your boundaries—without acting like you're too much.
✨ He makes plans—and follows through.
✨ You feel safe. Not anxious. Not confused. Just safe.

We don’t chase anymore, remember? We receive. We discern. We wear our lip gloss like armor and trust the energy behind the words.

So the next time someone hits you with “you feel different,” smile and say, “I am. And I’m not for everyone.”

The real one? He’s not gonna make you guess.
And you won’t need to pull three oracle cards and ask TikTok for backup to confirm it.

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💋 Love Letter Note:

You’re not hard to love. You’re just done accepting confusion as connection. Period.